Before 2013 ends..

Accepting Views
Just an hour ago, I was arguing on social media issues with my mum, both of us insisted our way, insisted each other to listen to each other, insisted that the other party should change her original way of thinking. The argument ended at where it started, neither of us gave in, our mindset remains. While showering, I realised throughout the argument, I have never tried looking at the issue through my mum's perception. Now that I found sense in both our thinkings, I have learnt to be more aware of accepting others' opinions, yet still have a mindset of my own, still, easier said than done as usual.. it takes time to change, at least make an effort to when I remember? Also, quit trying to change others, people only can change themselves.

The Perfect Facebook Life
I feel envious, kinda demoralised every-time I see how people leads their life, how I wish mine was similar. At the same time wondering, do they always lead such happy flawless life? What is the purpose of posting unfortunate encounters, to gain sympathy, assurance, likes, spread awareness? How much can people sympathise online? How genuine is the audience's care and concern? While occupied with these thoughts, I probably overlooked the people who cares for me physically, not many, just be contended with what I have.

Less Talk, More Action
There were some decisions made which upset me.. What isit? That's not important.. All I did was dwell and whine about it over and over again.. that doesn't change anything right? Yeap.. making efforts to use MOST of the whining energy to produce practical solutions whenever possible, the remaining energy can be used for whining still, keeping everything in isn't a good thing too x).

More Than Meets The Eye
A common scene in dramas when the heroine told the person who have just slapped her across the face:" This slap doesn't hurt me, you will be the one who gets hurt". I have fully experienced an issue with the same principle, me as the villain, victimizing someone in 2013 and the other way round few years back. I wasn't able to move on and completely freed myself be it being the victim or villain, but definitely better being a victim, what doesn't kill me makes me stronger. Nevertheless, what's done is done, I picked up experience from both incidents, after all, its the negativity which makes what seems positive. Hopefully.. I grow stronger and adjust for the better in 2014..